FIND YOUR HAPPY PLACE

24 Sep

In getting to know a client and better understand his or her personal style, I’ve developed a series of thought-provoking questions; one of which I shared with you in an earlier post Object of My Affection.

Because so many of you chimed in with great interest, I thought sharing another question with you would be equally as useful.  So here goes…

If you could anywhere in the world tomorrow, no worries, just hop on a plane, where would you go?  Why?

Over the years I’ve learned that the way in which people describe their ideal getaway spot is similar to how they would love to describe their own place.  Therefore, the answer to this question may very well provide you with some great insight into your personal style and preferences toward silhouettes, color schemes, textures and use of space.

Personally, Cinque Terre was always a place I wanted to go.  Pictured above, it’s a beautiful stretch of five villages on the Italian Riviera; charming yet rugged, they are quintessentially Mediterranean.  And despite several business jaunts to Italy, it was not until Eddie and I spent a week there on vacation that I realized how much this place was a part of me; even before I arrived.

Although we all know that happiness is not a destination; nor is it somewhere to be found.  Rather, it is something we must choose in each and every moment.  And since we’re always intending for something to happen in our lives, why not give happiness a chance?

So I ask the question in hopes that it will spark a connection between your happy place and your happiness…

If you could go anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would you go?  Why?

I’d love to hear in the comments below.

Until next time…

Comments

  • I’d go back to the Loire Valley in France and go castle hopping. It’s one of the most beautiful regions on earth and my way of experiencing life in another time,. 565 days ago

  • fallon

    Someday I would like to make a pilgimage to Lourdes. I want to feel that energy and stand on the spot of great spiritual significance. Healing, belief and uncondtional love. Spiritual, my taste is eclectic and whimsical. My bed frame broke last wk from old age. Really! Mark any advice in purchasing and dressing a platform bed would be wonderful. Having it built, will paint and poly myself. Thank you for sharing your getaway with us it helped me clarify mine. (bedroom has been decluttered for several years) :) 565 days ago

  • Norma Lamothe

    I would stay right here in this country. I would love to visit CO. I love the mountains and have seen beautiful mountains in CO. 565 days ago

  • Orlando Disney Fan

    My happy place is right here in Orlando. 565 days ago

  • Betty

    I lilke to go places I’ve never been before. See new places and cultures. 565 days ago

  • Linda

    I want to go to Wales and see all the medieval castles! 565 days ago

  • Suzanne Lobb

    I would definitely go back to Kauai. It stole my heart on my first visit. I’ve been there 4 times and next time I swear I’m just going to stay there. It is absolutley gorgeous, so peaceful. Crystal clear water, majestic waterfalls, sandy white beaches, rainbows, etc. Peaceful hues of blues and green. One can’t help but feeling in tune with nature in that place. I have never been happier, more inspired then when I’m there. 565 days ago

  • Sharon

    London … I’ve never been, and have always wanted to visit! 565 days ago

  • Sue

    I’ll tag along with Linda to those castles. 565 days ago

  • SM

    Choosing the appropriate season for each travel destination, I would love to go all over the world. Like you, I have been to Italy (Firenze & Rome) and want to see Venice, Lake Cuomo, the Amafi Coast, the Riviera. I would like to see Ireland, Holland, Sweden, Russia, S. Africa. The list goes on and on. I enjoy walking the towns/cities I visit. I don’t like cruises and don’t want to be on a one day time crunch to see a place. I like to walk all parts of the area and feel it in my bones. 565 days ago

  • I struggle to choose between London and East Africa, Ethiopia. Both suit me well. I lean more towards London though and her country sides. 565 days ago

  • Anne Haroun

    Either Serena Cay the most beautiful beach I ever was on or Garmisch-Partenkirchen to look up at the majestic breathtaking hugeness of the Alps. 565 days ago

  • This is a challenging question–there are so many worthwhile places to see. Right now, I think I would want to visit Costa Rica with a large sketch pad, a box of watercolors and my camera. I would want to walk around during the day discovering rare orchids and wildlife, and at night sit outside by candlelight with a glass of cold white wine, talking with my sweetheart and waiting for ghastly large moths to come and sit on our shoulders. 565 days ago

  • Janice

    I would go to the Caribbean. I think it is one of the most relaxing places in the world – not to mention how beautiful the scenery is. The colors are perfect for a peaceful trip. Actually, I am heading there again for the 6th time in 5 weeks. Mark, is your picture of the Amalfi Coast? I’ve been there and I absolutely love it. 565 days ago

  • M

    The Hawaiian Islands is where I would go. I’ve been to every state but Hawaii. I think I saved the best for last.
    I think your question makes sense: I am definitely attracted to bright tropical colors and surround myself with them. 565 days ago

  • Someplace where the mountains meet the Seaside and there are Castles with small villages in nearby valleys with flowering meadows and unicorns! 565 days ago

  • julie north

    I would love to go to New York I have never ever been there but since 9…11…..I have wanted to go there and see for myself where once stood the twin towers and pay my respects to the hero’s there for the lives that were saved and lost there my heart will always have a place for ground zero… 565 days ago

  • Sherry

    I’d stay right here in Maine. The changing seasons, the ocean, the rocky coasts, the islands, the seafood. Who could ask for more? 565 days ago

  • Belle

    Love and happy with my home and surrounding. I am not rich nor live in a gated subdivision. But i love my small house and my husband built a small patio where we can sit and look at the birds and trees and listen to their noise. Been to some countries in Europe including Iceland but nothing can compare to the comforts and friendliness of the south. 565 days ago

  • Edna

    I would like to stay in a real castle……….haunted fun 565 days ago

  • cynthia

    Your happy place has a lot to do with who you spend time with. It’s evident that the happiest people are not those with a vast fortune, but the one’s that find happiness in a beautiful day and willing to share it with others. Love you, Mark! 564 days ago

  • My destination would be Loon Lake, New York, in the Adirondack mountains. Deep blue lake, mountains and evergreen forest right to the water’s edge – morning’s mist on the lake, wildlife and waterfowl – peace and quiet – sublime. 564 days ago

  • Ian

    Hi, Mark. My name is Ian, I live in Brazil and like to watch you in Clean House (I know you don’t work there anymore).

    Just to know you have fans all over the world.

    Good luck. 563 days ago

  • Suzanne

    I want to visit the Greek Isles ;) 562 days ago

  • Toni

    The Northwestern corner of Washington State…where the trees are tall and the ocean is wild.

    I’ve been there many times, and can never get enough. 562 days ago

  • dana

    I loved going to the Grand Caymans! I enjoyed it so much I have taken my son there twice and he is only 8 years old. It is such a peaceful, relaxing place. I wouldn’t mind having a home there. 560 days ago

  • David

    Hi there!! My happy place is Toronto ON, Canada. Hugs from Argentina!! 558 days ago

  • trish

    My place is Italy! 480 days ago

  • Peggy Coons

    My dream place is Africa – I adore the movie “Out of Africa” and the eclectic decor mixing European antiques with English pieces and African art, animal hides or horns, mosquito nets and doors open to the outdoors. I imagine the sights, sounds and smells of the savannah. It’s kind of a mix between a fantasy of the movie and the exotic reality of Africa during that time period. 464 days ago

  • Lauren Villebrun

    If I could go anywhere….I would go back to Argentina. Alot of who I am today is because of going to college there – and I dream of bringing my husband there one day with me. I feel that it would help him to understand me better. :D 404 days ago

  • Aldana

    One of my happiest places is Tilcara, in Jujuy, Argentina. Maybe it isn’t a sophisticated place, but i love his humility 399 days ago

  • Mmmm…. Hawaii sounds pretty amazing. Surrounded by tropical colors, sandy beaches, crashing waves, laying in a hammock between palm trees sipping a rum drink out of a coconut! ;) 376 days ago

  • Cynthia

    I must be honest. I’m in college and am going to Italy, London, France, Spain and Greece but even with that, I would trade it all for my 1st year college floor hallway with my friends laughing or cuddling with a special someone in any room while the sunshine comes in through the window. I just love those moments. 264 days ago

  • Hi Mark, mmmm lets see. I think I would like to go to the Caribbean islands . I was stationed in Guam for 2 years and it is an amazing place. Blue water, green hills, wonderful people. I really Love tropical islands. Thanks for asking, I believe I know how I want to decorate my bedroom in our new house (doesn’t even have the drywall up yet!) 251 days ago

  • Lulu Marrotte

    Mark!
    Two years ago our family took a vacation to Italy, and we spent a day taking the “Walk-About Florence” Tour through Cinque Terre. We loved every minute of it, and like you we fell in love with it instantly. We are so looking forward to our next trip there. So beautiful! 236 days ago

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